We had a very interesting experience with some Chinese people this last week. It all started when we were approached by a stranger while buying some cookies from a small bakery. The man asked us if he could have our phone number to give to his friend. At this time, we were feeling flattered by his friendliness so we gave it to him, and he told us his friend would call later that night.
We received the call from his friend, Tony, and after quite a while and trying to interpret what he was saying, we were invited to come to dinner with him and his friends. The next day he called and we set up a time for him to pick us up and take us to his friend's apartment.
As time went on throughout the day, and as Alicia helped me to see, I realized that I had just set up an appointment with a complete stranger in a foreign country who has very broken English. I'll spare you the details, but long story short, he came with his friend, and there was some very awkward conversation as I interviewed him to see if we could trust getting into his car. As a measure of security, we had the principal's wife take a picture of his ID and take his cell phone number.
After feeling like we had a backup security plan in place, we decided to go with them. It turned out to be a wonderful night of dinner with some grateful Chinese people. They could not stop expressing their gratitude for us being there to eat food with them. Half of the purpose of our visit was to make friends with the 3 children which came to the dinner (ie: teach them English while we're at it). Don't get me wrong, we felt very accepted and appreciated by these new Chinese friends, but their intentions were clear when Tony would repeatedly tell us that we can correct the pronuciation of the children and teach them new words as often as necessary. We got to try some new foods, and eat lots and lots of dumplings. We even got to help prepare some of the dumplings. This kind of dumpling is called jiaozi. Dumplings are very cheap to make and are one of the most common foods in China, especially when big groups of people come together.
Alicia connected with the two girls: Rain and Tina
They busted out the paintbrush and paper they use to practice their Chinese characters and let us try a few. It's really hard!
I connected more with Kevin. (That is his English name of course.)
This is a picture of the whole group (except Tony who is taking the picture). Although the language barrier was pretty heavy, we discovered they are all very humble and good people. We haven't experienced so much friendship and grattitude in one night in our entire lives. By the end of the night we were practically exhausted from all the food and new friends.
CHINESE FRIENDS FOREVER!

