For the past 8 days I (Alicia) have been surprising Mr. Thomas with little gifts to celebrate the 12 days leading up to Christmas. I realize that the 12 days of Christmas are technically supposed to start after Christmas, but we needed some holiday spirit up in here. It has been so much fun to give him little treats everyday, and it's been a great way to feel the spirit of Christmas here in China. So today is day 9, and Mr. Russell gets to be publicly mushy-gushed with love. Here are 9 things I love about Tom.
1. He is my best friend. I guess that's something less about him and more about our relationship, but it's still one of my favorite things.
2. He is VERY honest. Thom's omnipresent and sometimes quite intense honesty wouldn't work for all wives, but I like it. I like that he tells me when, yes, indeed, this dress does make my butt look big; or no, that dinner wasn't the best thing ever, let's not have it again. I like it because he's learned (...learning) to be strategic with his wording, and he doesn't have to beat around the bush to tell me something. I never have to wonder what's on his mind, that's for sure. And that makes my life just a bit easier.
3. He's a fixer. Tom can fix just about any around-the-house problem. Squeaky hinge? Bam, fixed. Your walls are concrete so you can't hang things? Boom, fixed. Heated floors are so hot they're burning you? Blam, fixed. A pipe is clogged? Blizzam, fixed. He even has something he calls "the Tom guarantee" - if something has "the Tom guarantee" it means it won't break again. He's so cute about fixing things too, he loves it. If he doesn't know how to fix it right away - even better - that means he gets to research it.
Not only does Tom fix things like a handy man, he fixes relationship things too. If he sees something about our relationship that could be better, he does everything possible to improve it. Now that's a real handy man.
4. He's the perfect mixture of an old man and a little boy. On the old man side, you have his great sense of style (he pulls off old man sweaters really well) and his less-than-full head of hair (he also pulls this off really well). On the little boy side, you have his giggles, love for cookies/candy, and his intense interest in construction, puzzles, cars, etc.
5. He's a music man. He serenades me. He plays music for the kids we teach. It's all cute.
6. He's got a crazy ability to focus. This is a blessing and a curse, really. Once he gets started on something, you can't pull him away. But it's really quite amazing. Once he puts his mind to it, he can work on anything - writing a paper, making a puzzle, fixing something, making a Christmas tree out of foam - for hours and hours. It's especially good that he has this ability, because I don't, so he balances out my short attention span.
7. He enjoys simple pleasures. This is something we have in common. Thus, we can be easily entertained together, and that's nice. This has made the 12 days of Christmas very doable - a 5-meter measuring tape for the fifth day? Thrilling.
8. He likes/loves weird things about me. Anybody who knows me knows that I'm not necessarily "normal." I tend to do "odd" things. Often. Lucky for me, Tom usually thinks that this is cute, and joins in (if he wasn't the one who started the weirdness).
9. He's weird too. I like that. How awkward would it be if I married somebody who wasn't weird?

